Monday, March 24, 2014

Learning The Art Of Flirting

By Brett Vaughan


Flirting is known to be a helpful skill that some people have while some have to acquire it through practice in order to master it. The basic rule of learning the art of flirting is overcoming the fear of strangers whereby one assumes that every stranger is dangerous. Instead, people should take advantage of the anonymity of flirting with a stranger or any random person.

Practice is all that people need for those that find it frustrating which is best done by approaching random stranger who are handy in building ones confidence by learning to initiate conversations. In addition, one feels safer this way since one has less chances of meeting the person again in which case they have nothing to lose; this there hence prepares them for meeting the right person.

By doing more practice one get better at this by being more comfortable and figures out what works for them and more so how to take a beating of their ego as one is bound to rejections. As time goes by, one gets comfortable practicing it with random stranger which shows one can move to the next step that involves semi-strangers and move on as confidence to approach the people they like is gathered.

At times, some people may seem intimidating which makes is hard to approach them but the key is usually being confident as the person may probably be waiting for you to approach them. When one is past exchanging phone numbers and saliva, this is usually less intimidating and rejection even becomes less embarrassing as one has gained enough confidence to know that there are other people who would not mind going out with them.

Normally, flirting begins with the eyes, then to the mouth and some coyness or shyness especially for women. This tends to be different for men and women as men are only expected to portray boldness and not shyness which is seen as attractive when done by women. With time, women have grown confident enough to be the once doing the approaching and not waiting for the men to do it.

Flirting does not have a definite place that can be said to be appropriate for it; however, one should have the ability to see it when others are sending signals and hints. For instance, one should know that when someone blinks, smile and somewhat acts coy they probably are telling them to approach them. Moreover, there should be a limit for everything as it gets weird when one overdoes it.

Flirting is a process that hints one step to the other; it starts with hints from the eyes, goes to a smile and body language which show that it is the right time to approach. The ability to ignite a conversation is indispensable as one need to keep the conversation flowing just to avoid the awkwardness especially when it is a stranger. With time, one should initiate some coziness just to break the touch barrier but ensure it is not offensive.

There are a couple of rules that one ought to consider for a successful flirting time especially for people who are planning to make it good enough for a second date. In this case, one should make it interesting and try as much as possible to leave when things are going well in order to leave room for suspense and anticipation for a second meeting.




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