Tuesday, January 28, 2014

There Is Group Support For Sex Addiction In Most Areas

By Nelda Powers


The individual with a sexual addiction is dependent on excessive intercourse just as the alcoholic is dependent on drinking. Alcoholics Anonymous is an organization that holds meetings to help alcoholics. There is similar group support for sex addiction in many locations. The sexual addict is not the same as the sexual deviant. That individual seeks practices that are abnormal. They are often against the law as well.

The sex addict seeks an excessive amount of encounters. They are, however, considered by most people to be normal encounters. The problem lies in the fact that he or she is continuously seeking a partner for intercourse more times a day or week than is normal. Deviant behaviors include pedophilia and exhibitionism, which are illegal.

The addict, on the other hand, is obsessed with normal sexual activities. The deviants behavior may be sadistic or masochistic in nature. It is a damaging act, unlike the sex act that falls within the parameters of normal. The problem is that the addict participates in an excessive amount of sexual encounters.

The symptoms of an addiction include the need for ever increasing levels of intensity to achieve satisfaction, spending too much time having sex to the extent that it blocks other activity and feeling withdrawal symptoms if sexual gratification is not frequent enough. Prior to group therapy, a medical doctor should be seen to rule out any physical condition that may be causing the intense need for sex.

Generalized anxiety and depression may exist in conjunction with the addiction. In treatment, all these symptoms should be taken into consideration. The supportive meeting for addicts may be conducted by a psychiatrist or psychologist.

Someone who has experienced a sexual addiction and recovered would make a good leader as well. Perhaps a support group had a significant effect on his recovery. The main benefit of turning to other people for support is interacting with those who are experiencing similar problems.

The meetings are structured to maintain anonymity among the participants. This is the same principle that Alcoholics Anonymous is founded on. They know each other by their first names and have no worries about being unfairly judged by others.

A triggering event can accelerate the addiction. This can consist of a sound, a scent or a sight. What needs to happen is for the addict to learn to avoid the triggers. The goal is to recognize those triggers and plan how to avoid them.

Some groups are conducted under the auspices of a professional, and are a form of therapy. Others are more casual. The participants should always be made to feel comfortable and accepted. Everyone should share their feelings comfortably. Most geographic locations will have groups formed for the support of sexually obsessed individuals.

There are all male meetings and all female meetings. Many are open to both genders. In addition, there are meetings for the spouses or partners of the afflicted person. When these family members get together they can discuss mutual problems in dealing with the addicted partner.

Many people developed an addiction to sex as a result of viewing porn on the internet. It is readily available and the temptation is too much for some. This can lead to excessive sexual activity he or she cannot control. Group support for sex addiction can be the beginning of recovery. Interacting with others who are facing this obsession can be comforting as well as informational.




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