Most of the students entering college like you have a desire to be popular somehow. You want everyone to know them and like them. The first year is very important because it will determine what type of student you will be. As college students build relationships with other college students and professors, they will become more well known on campus. Becoming well know is only half the battle, the other half is leaving others with a positive impression after meeting you. Trust me you can NOT even think of getting popular by drinking and smoking weed. You don't have to be a 'bad guy' in order to be popular, you have to earn respect for yourself.
To me, popularity isn't self-serving, it is about serving others. It's about giving to others, not taking.How do we become popular?1) Listen to people. People love to talk and they love to talk about their favourite topic. What is it? Whenever you get people talking about themself, you are putting them in a good state mentally; they will begin to like you. Ask questions. Linked heavily with the first point, ask people questions about themselves. It shows you are interested in someone of you ask them more about themself. They continue to share about their favourite topic
BE ACTIVE: If you really want to be popular you MUST participate in all sorts of activities going around in the college. All colleges have NUMEROUS activities and you need to attend the most you can. Join clubs and organisations as it is a great way to meet new people and make friends. The most friends you have or in other words the more people you impress the more popular you get! There are many other ways such as going to parties. Parties are probably a better way to interact with other students since students are in a more relaxed atmosphere at the parties and more open to social interaction.
People are sick of others who lie. People want to be friends with someone who is real, truthful and honest.Be funny. People like funny people, simple. People like comedians, they go to their shows, buy their dvd's. Comedians take people's mind off their own problems. If you are naturally funny, use your gift. One thing I will say is try and make yourself the butt of jokes; if you don't know someone and your making fun of them you may get a punch in the mouth for your troubles.
There you have it 7 tips to help you become popular with others. Using these tips will help you gain friends, strengthen the friendships you have. They will help you gain more influence in your workplace and maybe help you move up the career ladder.Start putting them into practice and remember all of these tips are focused on other people. I wasn't sure about tip no 7 being focused on others but then I realised it is, because you are giving something of yourself to others.To repeat myself:Popularity isn't self-serving, it is about serving others. It's about giving to others, not taking.
To me, popularity isn't self-serving, it is about serving others. It's about giving to others, not taking.How do we become popular?1) Listen to people. People love to talk and they love to talk about their favourite topic. What is it? Whenever you get people talking about themself, you are putting them in a good state mentally; they will begin to like you. Ask questions. Linked heavily with the first point, ask people questions about themselves. It shows you are interested in someone of you ask them more about themself. They continue to share about their favourite topic
BE ACTIVE: If you really want to be popular you MUST participate in all sorts of activities going around in the college. All colleges have NUMEROUS activities and you need to attend the most you can. Join clubs and organisations as it is a great way to meet new people and make friends. The most friends you have or in other words the more people you impress the more popular you get! There are many other ways such as going to parties. Parties are probably a better way to interact with other students since students are in a more relaxed atmosphere at the parties and more open to social interaction.
People are sick of others who lie. People want to be friends with someone who is real, truthful and honest.Be funny. People like funny people, simple. People like comedians, they go to their shows, buy their dvd's. Comedians take people's mind off their own problems. If you are naturally funny, use your gift. One thing I will say is try and make yourself the butt of jokes; if you don't know someone and your making fun of them you may get a punch in the mouth for your troubles.
There you have it 7 tips to help you become popular with others. Using these tips will help you gain friends, strengthen the friendships you have. They will help you gain more influence in your workplace and maybe help you move up the career ladder.Start putting them into practice and remember all of these tips are focused on other people. I wasn't sure about tip no 7 being focused on others but then I realised it is, because you are giving something of yourself to others.To repeat myself:Popularity isn't self-serving, it is about serving others. It's about giving to others, not taking.
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