Saturday, August 24, 2013

How To Get A Girl To Like You In Many Ways

By Adrian Felton


Every individual wants someone special in life. It is no wonder why every guy wants a sweet charming girl as his life partner. But every girl usually likes bold and tougher guys in general. So how can you get her like you?When men are mostly turned on by the looks of a woman, a woman usually likes a man of character. Women are usually turned on by the personality of a man. Every man should be therefore self confident and should be bold and mature enough to handle tough situations. Ironically if you really want to get a girl to like you, then you should always be on a high and never let her feel that you are in need.

If you are wondering how to get a girl to like you fast, then be her friend. For her to notice you, first ensure you are in her circle of friends as girls don't just like random strangers. Once you have won her over as a friend you can now start flirting with her. This will let her know of your intentions and she will most likely respond by flirting back if she likes you or not if she doesn't.Another tip on how to get a girl to like you is by acting confident- girls like guys who are confident. Being confident will show a girl that you believe in yourself and she will enjoy being around you.

Make sure that you have your own life- Many girls like guys who will have a life outside the relationship. Having a life besides being with her all the time will ensure that you are not clingy and you also let her have her own life, like she used to before you. It will also show that you have your own goals and your life doesn't revolve around her. Being clingy will put her off and you will look desperate which will not help you.

Girls are social beings - if you want to know another great tip on how to get a girl to like you, be social. If you are trying to impress a girl show her that you are social and she won't get bored being around you. She needs to know that she will have a great time meeting your friends or her friends while the two of you start dating.

We've all been frustrated when a meet that ONE girl that drives us nuts. She's just so hot, funny, charming, and sexy that we just can't contain ourselves. Yup, I often just don't know what to do. Having dealt with this so many times I made a promise to myself I would find a proven way to get girls to like me. I'm not claiming to be a dating guru or player but here's the good news. These techniques work for everybody so you won't have to wonder about how to get a girl to like you!

Don't come off as desperate. If you want to get a girl to like you, you need to present yourself as secure with yourself and in control of your desires. Women are naturally attracted to guys who are confident. Women are competitive and want a guy who's in demand. If you act like an overly emotional, clingy guy, you'll annoy her and ultimately turn her off. Now, I'm not saying to act like a cold-hearted jerk! What I am saying is that you need to project an attitude that says if she likes you awesome, but it not, there are plenty of other chicks waiting.

Girls tend to like guys who are somewhat mysterious to them. Engage girls in conversation, but don't let them know everything about you, especially if you have a prison record or warrant out for your arrest. There is some truth to the old cliche of girls being attracted to the 'strong, silent type'. This should be easy to pull off if you follow tip number one above.

Act yourself to get a girl to like you. Don't try to be someone you're really not because eventually she's going to find out who you really are. Let her fall in love with the right guy. Plus, this makes it a heck of a lot easier for you. I can speak from firsthand experience and I know I'm a terrible actor!

Girls like guys who are sensitive, but that does not mean guys who have a low pain threshold or can detect the faintest odor. Girls like guys who are kind to animals, like little children, and aren't afraid to show their emotions. This is specially true if they show their emotions concerning the girl in question. (Again, see tip one).A girl likes a guy who is attentive. If you are able to notice a special feature about her that others may not notice such as a different hair style, a new outfit, or a distinctive facial feature, a girl will feel that you are interested in her. You can get clues to what is going on in a girls life by following tip number one.

Be a good listener. Often a girl likes to sit and talk, not necessarily communicate, just talk. A girl likes a guy who will sometimes just listen to her thoughts, her day, and her dreams. Caution: when a girl talks about her problems, it does NOT mean she wants you to solve them, she just wants you listen and empathize with her. She is not looking for advice or solutions; she just wants to share with you what is going on in her life. (Refer to tip number one).In summary: a girl likes someone who will listen, is attentive, is a good listener, is sensitive, and quiet. Therefore the answer to the puzzle: "How to get a girl to like you" is to be a girl, or at least be able to think like one. If all else fails, just being there to give her a hug when she needs one, and she will think you are the best guy in the world.




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